why i dislike-with-a-passion being called the "Sweet,Kind, Cute, Shy Girl"

GGGGGGGGRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRR!
people may think being called THIS is a compliment but all it tells me is that I'm:
~pathetic
~easily used
~unconfident
~stupid
~uncomfortable
~have no speaking skills
~and possibly will end up never being taken seriously!

yeah, yeah you're all probably saying-she should take it as a compliment!-or-what's her problem?!-or-she's paranoid!-but these are all truly legitimate points and i don't like any of them. i want to be confident, sophisticated, and someone that no one will look down upon just because i look like the "sweet, kind, cute, shy girl" type............and also being stereotyped is not fun either. *sigh* im not saying i dislike-with-a-passion all you people out there who have called me that but it gets annoying after awhile and..............you know what you're all absolutely right...................i am the "sweet, kind, cute, shy girl" type and i should just live with it i mean its not like i can change it...........i was born this way and will die this way........*sigh*

man i don't even have the guts to curse on a post when im mad!:{